Speaking from my own experience, the one time I did cheat I felt as if my man wasn’t interested in me anymore. His behavior had changed toward me and he was rarely home. I was lonely and filled with lust for a very handsome young man and after a period of time of constantly seeing him out, I gave in.
I was looking to fill a void of sex and love, and of course, I only found sex.
Generally speaking, women cheat for the following reasons:
For the thrill of it; they know they can get away with it
She loves sex
Her man is cheating
There is an inability to communicate with her man regarding problems, and can’t find a solution
There is a lack of an emotional connection at home
She has a fear of commitment
She is lonely
Overwhelming lust and desire for someone new
The sex is bad or boring at home
She seeks a more endowed man
Her man is non-attentive
If a man is not willing to fulfill his woman’s sexual desires, she is going to cheat. What do we want in bed? Everything the man isn’t giving or has stopped doing.
Sexually speaking, she wants good oral sex that leads to a climax; maybe even toys or rough sex; overall, she wants freaky, passionate, wet sex. Three things we are looking for from that side lover are compliments, dates, better sex, and someone who will listen.
“Men cheat because the other woman makes him feel needed, important, appreciated, and because most men choose not to communicate effectively outside of pursuing sexual favors.
“What do men expect in bed? Men expect their partners not to judge them. Most side-lovers have at least these three things. 1) No restrictions in the bedroom, 2). She gives oral sex (like she really means it, and is enjoying it) and 3). She allows anal sex without complaints.” - Zondra Hughes