Sex … women and men talk about it all the time. It comes up in our daily conversations, whether we’re asking for advice or sharing secrets and tips. Real Beauty turned to Dr. Lissa Rankin, author of What’s Up Down There? Questions You’d Only Ask Your Gynecologist if She Was Your Best Friend, to unlock the secrets to having a better sex life.
Keep reading for 21 of her expert tips.
1. Embrace Pillow Talk
“It’s hard enough to talk about sex when you’re in the middle of making love. Instead, discuss positions you’d like to try, things you like, things you don’t like, while you’re in a relaxed setting to take any judgment out of the conversation.”
“Finding women in a porno sexy does not make you lesbian.”
“Porn stars’ vaginas have usually been air brushed to appear picture-perfect. Some women even undergo surgery. In real life, vaginas come in all shapes, sizes, and colors.”