K. Michelle Can’t Keep a Man. Does This Sound Like You?
K. Michelle just can’t seem to stay put with man. Does this sound familiar to you? She isn’t the only one, it’s the story of so many women’s lives… It is still is a mystery to us who K. Michelle’s baby daddy is but we do know that her relationship with Memphitz, the alleged abusive ex-boyfriend that she dated was not so hot. It was the fuel for K. Michelle putting out a diss record. Not only is she dealing with the ex Memphitz situation but she also found out that her baby daddy got married, not to some random woman, but to someone who she was supposedly close to.
Even though K. Michelle dated other guys after her son’s father, that can be a hard pill for her to swallow. As far as talent she has it, but it’s not looking so good in the relationship department. K. Michelle’s past is holding her back from settling down with a good man. This is nothing new, it is taking place in the black community on a daily basis. While it may always be a man-hate sob story, maybe it’s time that we stop pointing the finger ladies.
According to Baller Allert these are amongst the top reasons that black women can’t keep a man:
Cause You Act Like A B**CH!!! – Not to be disrespectful but ladies you cannot walk around with a nasty attitude and wonder why you struggle with finding the right man. Being a negative person isn’t going to help you find love. Learn to have a great attitude and you will start to attract the right kind of man in your life.
You Blame Men For Everything – This may be why you are still single. It is important to be accountable for your actions. It’s not always the fellas. Don’t be afraid to reverse that finger that you are always pointing the other way.
You Think Your Looks Will Carry You Through Life – Looks are not everything. They are a small percentage. When a man looks beyond image and there is nothing else there, good luck on becoming his woman. The sex will always be there, but unfortunately nothing more. Become a more well-rounded fun woman and more men will want to make you their lady.
Take these minor things into account ladies and you’ll be on your way to a happy and healthy relationship!
-Europe Angelique
