Most people would not describe themselves as selfish. Yet selfishness is one of the most common sources of tension in romantic relationships, and it tends to be far easier to recognize in a partner than in oneself. The behaviors below are not always obvious. Some are habits so deeply ingrained they pass as personality traits.…
Romantic relationships rarely depend on attraction alone. What often determines whether a relationship grows or slowly unravels is emotional intelligence. Psychologists describe emotional intelligence, often called EQ, as the ability to understand emotions in yourself and in others, then respond with awareness and empathy.
When people develop this ability, relationships tend to become calmer, more…

